Don’t judge me until you walked in my shoes.
Everyone has their own story. We all have faced our own pain, frustration, loss, some illness, or whatever it may be that makes it unbearable to face some days. We still need to do life even though it’s a struggle. Some people can disguise it well and go through the day and you wouldn’t know they are in the midst of a bad storm in their life. Yet, others might not handle it in the same way. They might be angry at the world and that’s alright. People process things differently.
We should never judge others because we don’t know what they are facing, just like others don’t know what you are facing. If someone is being obstinate, curt or might be plain rude, don’t start judging them. Instead treat them with love, extend your compassion to them…it might be what they need at that moment.
We never know what is going on in other people’s lives, they could have just lost a loved one, or were laid off at work, or maybe their spouse left them. They have the right to be angry. By being compassionate this can help them see that everything in the world isn’t all bad. We have a tendency to treat people the same way they are treating us. We all need to provide a little more understanding, not judgement. Shower the people with love.
Love and hugs,